When is enough, enough?

"Oist" (12:27 am 15-Oct-2007)
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"? ka din"
"Hala. Lasing ka na naman....."

While I was taught to love people unconditionally, to put other people's needs before my own, I am learning not to...just because i don't want to learn to hate.

"We may give our human loves the unconditional allegiance which we only owe to God. Then they become gods; then they become demons. Then they will destroy us, and also destroy themselves. For natural loves that are allowed to become gods do not remain loves. They are still called so, but can become in fact complicated forms of hatred."
—C.S. LEWIS, The Four Loves