Like vs Can

This conversation began with a shoutout "Hey, can I kiss you? We know each other so this has no malice." Intrigued, I asked and found out it was addressed to a girl who can kiss with no malice, which is a trait of a liberated woman according to JR (part of his real name).

JR: She's frustrated. She was emphasizing that she's 30 but still single. Why can't she be like you?
Me: me? be like me in what way?
JR: not feeling any pressure despite that you're 30+
Me: hahahahaha
JR: by the way *** was there last night...
Me: wow. and so?
JR: hmmmmmmmm....never mind..hahahaha
JR: it's just that we're having a love talk....
Me: *laughter*
JR: I just had to mention that
JR: *grins*
Me: and then?
JR: that's it... *takes a bow*
Me: hahaha
Me: I think that girl isn't pressured. Just because she is liberated doesn't mean she is pressured
Me: liberated is not equal to pressured
Me: get it? hehe
JR: hahaha..got it!
Me: this is more like a conversation about "like" and "can"

Gusto vs Kaya

hindi lahat ng gusto e pde
hindi lahat ng kaya ay tama
hindi lahat ng gusto e kaya
hindi lahat ng kaya e gusto

*bow*